please pray for my wife if you do that kind of thing

[bitley]

My condoleances.

[Popey]

My sincere condolences

[rgdaniel]

Sorry for your loss.

[MrFigg]

Sending a hug man. No words.

[moneykube]

the local paper obituary is up
https://leaderpost.remembering.ca/obitu ... FXrBuN7V8w

[moneykube]

The flags at the University of Regina will be flown at half-mast on Monday, April 14, 2025, in memory of Shirley Elaine Pain. The timing of this honour was unknown when this longer obituary for Speers Funeral Home was written> that covers most of her productive, helpful life... I likely missed a lot of what she did in her life here on this world.
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The Department of Film in the Faculty of Media, Art and Performance has provided the following information about her life and career:

We are deeply saddened to hear of the passing of Elaine Pain, who taught in the Department of Film from 1983 to 2009.

Elaine Pain was the first woman to teach film production at the University of Regina. She began her career as an animator in Halifax in 1978 and moved to Regina in 1983, where she began teaching regularly as a sessional lecturer. Initially focused on animation courses, by the late 1980s, she had expanded her teaching to include a wide range of subjects within the film program—from introductory to advanced filmmaking and various film studies courses. In 1999, she was promoted to the rank of Instructor.

Elaine’s research at the University of Regina focused on technically sophisticated and visually striking animated short films. These works were widely screened at festivals, garnered numerous awards, and became part of permanent collections. She collaborated closely with the National Film Board, serving as an advisor on the film Barnstormer (1986) and directing A Letter from Violet in 1992. In the 1990s, her practice shifted toward poetic documentary, exploring themes of identity, landscape, and regional Canadian lives and cultures.

Elaine made a significant impact on the local film community through her leadership in organizations such as the Saskatchewan Filmpool Cooperative and the Saskatchewan Motion Picture Association, where she served on the boards of directors and various committees. From 1992 to 1994, she was the president of the Filmpool. Elaine also provided her expertise as an assessor with the Canada Council for the Arts, the Saskatchewan Arts Board, and other arts organizations.

Elaine served on the Cupar and District Heritage Museum board during her retirement years. She represented the organization at annual conferences and meetings of the Museum Association of Saskatchewan. From 2015 to 2017, she was the network coordinator for the Qu'Appelle Valley Museums Network, and in 2017, she became the vice-chair of the Cupar Museum Board, where she mentored summer students.

Elaine will be remembered fondly as a kind and generous teacher. May she rest in peace.
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Her longer more concise obituary can be found here.
https://www.speersfuneralchapel.com/obi ... 9pndHyQ5Gw

[PhillipOrdonez]

I’m sorry for your loss 🫂

[bitley]

You are a good man

[robussc]

She sounds like an amazing woman! My wife is also an academic, so I know she made a huge impact in many young peoples lives. My deepest condolences for your loss.

[Mattvank]

My sincere condolences too.

[Yonatan]

Love

[moneykube]

Thank you all very much. She was quite an outstanding woman. I will miss her greatly.
The University has lowered the flags to half mast today in her honour.
The timing of this was unknown when I wrote the long obituary for Speers Funeral Home > linked above.

Flags Mon April 14_25.jpg

[bitley]

I send my thoughts to you over there in Saskatchewan. I first discovered the word as a 7-8 year old kid when I studied the little high tech Panasonic world radio my grandpa always carried around. It had all these exotic places in the world listed on its front panel and Saskatchewan was one of them.

[mosin jack]

I'm so sorry to hear about what you're going through right now. Sending my thoughts and prayers to you and Elaine during this incredibly difficult time. May you both find comfort and strength in these final moments together. Take care of each other.

[Micha1973]

My condolences for your loss – stay strong even when it's difficult. My sincerity

[moalla]

My sincere condolences, I wish you lots of strength and love durring this difficult time.

[dhruan]

Thanks everyone. My beautiful wife Elaine Pain , passed from this world into the Loving Arms of Jesus at 6pm Friday. I was with her, and she was comfortable during her transition from this life into the next. Thank you all for your many prayers, kind words, assistance, and your support > throughout this difficult time. It is comforting to know that her pain is finally gone.

So sorry for your loss... may her memory be a blessing. <3 I am happy that you were able to be there for her in her final moments.

So yeah... this one hits a bit too close to home. I lost my fiancée and best friend of fifteen years to cancer at the end of May 2024 (a day after we let our rescue of 17y7m free to roam the happier hunting grounds). Her cancer, which was initially diagnosed and treated in 2016 (while she was still in her 30s, way too young...), had metastasized to her lungs, and as a person with asthma, well... in the end it all happened quite fast. It was horribly sad and tragic, and it all is still very tough to think about. At least she is not in pain anymore.

My 2¢ on this... grief will come in waves. Try to give yourself as much time as you need to mourn. Don't fight against any emotions that might surface, or try to compartamentalize and box them somewhere to the back of the mind. They will come regardless, so instead, try to let them flow through you like water. It will become easier with time. They are a bit like waves after a major storm... they will die down over time, coming in slower, less often, and weaker, but occasionally and completely out of the blue, some will wash over you big time. While it sucks, it is perfectly natural, and as soon as you acknowledge that, things will become easier.

Anyway, that was my bit of unsolicited advice from someone who is still dealing with the loss of a loved one. Take care <3

[raymondh]

Very sorry for your loss.